It is hard to imagine, but according to those who have experienced both: the grief from a divorce can be more devastating than the death of a spouse. The end of your “happily ever after” can have life -long consequences, especially if one or both of you go negative on the other.
At Webb-Martin Law we hope to make it possible to remember the good or better times. We’d also like to help protect and preserve your health, wealth and children. You may think the devil is your soon to be ex-spouse, but in actual fact, the devil is the bitter resentment, anger, and retaliation that bad breakups are made of. Count on us to help steer you out of that storm whenever, and as soon as, possible.
Divorce happens at the newly married stage, at the family raising stage, and even in the twilight years. It can be something that one or both of you know is coming for a very long time, or it can strike completely by surprise. Even if it comes gently and with mutual consent, we know it is never easy. If you want to get through the process without breaking yourself or breaking your spouse, we have some tried and trusted methods and resources to share.
Or, maybe you just want to be prepared? You need to know what your options and potential outcomes are if there is a divorce. We can provide confidential answers to your questions. We can coach and direct you to minimize the damage to yourself, your spouse and most importantly your children.
If you decide on dissolving your marriage, we can initiate a divorce action as respectfully as possible. Or, if you are on the receiving end of a divorce action, we can help arrest the meltdown. We can educate you, and help you navigate the legal process.We can get you the short term counseling support or divorce coaching you need from a quality mental health professional. We would work hand in hand with that professional. We can protect and assert your legal rights, but most importantly we can work cooperatively with your spouse and/or his/her attorney. We know this approach leads to better (faster, less expensive, less damaging) outcomes.
You may need graceful aggression and firm legal representation. That we can provide. However, if you want to destroy your spouse, and/or”take everything” from him/her, including the children, we are probably not the right firm for you. But, if you hired that type of attorney in the first place and you need rescuing from a mean destructive mess, we are able to assist with that. Our goal for you is to get back on the road to peace as soon as you can. Long or short, recovery after a divorce is possible. The moment you start living for the future is when you will find your way again.